Things to Know Before You Say "Go"

Things to Know before you Say 'Go'Sample Activity

Pick-A-Card

Randomly pull a card from the deck (use the 6 sample cards posted on the right). Read the main question on the front of the card. Ask the students to discuss some or all of the questions below.

  • Is this information important to know when dating? Why?
  • How might not knowing the answer to this question get in your way?
  • Have you paid attention to this issue in your past relationships?
  • Do your friends seem to care about this issue in the people they go out with? Does not caring cause problems for them?
  • How do you find the answers to this question? What signs would you look for, both positive and negative?
  • Is this something you can see yourself discussing with someone? What would the discussion sound like?
  • Did your parents ever concern themselves with this issue when they were dating?
  • Does a person have to be perfect in this area in order for you to date them? Explain.
  • How would you score yourself on this issue? What might this tell others about your readiness for a serious relationship?